From the category archives:

That’s Life

Image © Mission Australia

She sat slumped in the big people’s chair tinkling on the little wooden xylophone she had “borrowed” from the shelf. Her mother and a friend sat beside her chatting and sipping coffee in the busy coffee book store that has become my favourite place to write.

I looked up suddenly… fascinated. It had been ages since I’d heard that sound. The crisp tinkle of the keys took me back to the simple joy of simple toys in a simpler time and place.

It was a lovely scene… and I smiled to myself as I watched

[and waited]

because I knew it couldn’t last.

The shop assistant would be over there soon… and the magic would have to end.

And then… right on cue… there she was.

Like a dark cloud casting its shadow across the sun… the shop assistant stood towering over the little girl. I wondered secretly [holding my heart] how she was going to handle this.  Then with a purposeful look… she bent down unrepentant and fixed the child with a solid gaze before extracting the toy from the little girl’s hands.

The mother sat in silent acceptance as the child relinquished the toy to its rightful owner. The little girl to her credit didn’t argue or complain but merely gave it up with eyes downcast… her humiliation complete.

Then… with mission accomplished… the shop assistant stepped back with the toy in her hands and without a backward glance returned the errant product triumphantly back onto the shelf.

She was only doing her job.  I know.

But I longed for a pang of regret.

And watched closely for it.

But no. She just walked away.

The xylophone sat silently back on the shelf… the air around it filled with the palpable sound of uninterrupted silence.

In that moment the world lost its innocence.

And the child grew up.

But what if she didn’t have to?

What if the world didn’t have to be so unkind?

What if I could somehow change things?

What if they thought I was interfering?

What if… what if… what if?

I downed the last sip of my coffee.

Then without stopping to think… I got up and walked over to where the xylophone sat on the shelf.  I picked up the box and perused the price. It was reasonable.

I tucked the box under my arm and walked up to the counter to order another coffee.

“Oh… and I’ll take the xylophone too” I squeaked… now not quite so sure of my actions.

But no.

I wanted to make things right.  Even if only in this very small way.

I wanted this little girl to feel better about her experience. Better about the world.  And the way things worked. I wanted her to know about kindness.  And how it might not be dead. And how people DO still care.

“That will be $25.90 thanks”  the shop assistant said looking slightly embarrassed.

[Oh shoot... I hadn't counted on making HER feel bad]

But this thing was bigger than us.

WE would all get over it.

The little girl might not.

So I pressed on with the purchase… put the box under my arm… and headed tentatively over to their table.

The mother looked up in blank surprise as I handed her the box… and for a split second I felt a bit silly.

“Are you serious?” she said with a growing smile

“Oh wow… that’s wonderful… thank you… but are you sure?” 

Yes… I was sure [grin]

She handed the box to the little girl and her face lit up.

“You know that’s all she wanted for Christmas” she explained

“Niall loves to make music”

I apologised for stealing Santa’s thunder… but she hastened to reassure me that I’d made their day.

[I was relieved... because it could have gone either way]

Niall smiled from ear to ear when her mother told her the xylophone was hers to keep.

“And hey… who didn’t want to come to town today to go to the Doctor!?” she chided the little girl lightly.

Then… confiding in me afterward she added

“We’re hoping for good news today”

I stood there shocked.

“I think it’s going to be a VERY good day”  she said with a smile.

It was.

A very good day.

For ALL of us!

EVERY GOOD WISH FOR A VERY HAPPY CHRISTMAS TO GOOD FRIENDS HERE.

MAY YOUR DAYS HERE ON EARTH BE FILLED WITH LOVE.

AND MAY THE PEOPLE WHO COME INTO YOUR LIFE AND LOVINGLY PASS THROUGH IT…  THOSE WHO TOUCH YOUR HEART AND CHANGE IT FOREVER… BRING YOU GRATITUDE … DEEP CONTENTMENT AND HAPPINESS BEYOND MEASURE.

LIFE IS GOOD. LET’S LIVE IT.

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“For Emily Wherever I May Find Her”

Watercolour 30″ x 30″ © Jean Burman 2011

There’s been a lot said this week about the importance of uniqueness and the struggle to find your own personal style.

I thought it wonderfully odd… as I struggled to bring you this new video clip [a watercolour portrait of my daughter]… as this was the very message I was hoping to bring to you… not only by way of this new painting… but also in the film I was putting together for the purpose.

Somewhere along the way… we have to accept that to be our best we will always be in an ever constant state of striving (((chuckles)))

To find your own personal style… you have to be brave [and not afraid to be different] in your approach to your art [and your life].  And this applies across the board not only for artists… but for EVERYONE.

It isn’t easy… but as they say… nothing worth having ever is.

You have to be open to it.
You have to keep on looking.
Keep on doing.
Keep on staying as true to your heart as you can imagine.

There will be resistance. There almost always is.

There will be people who think your way is wrong and you aren’t following the rules.

But my question is… and always has been… WHO makes the rules?

We each have a role to play… and we each have our own uniqueness to bring. It’s up to us to fight for that uniqueness. Because it’s our uniqueness that divides and separates us from the pack… and informs the world of our existence.

What purpose otherwise… for us to be here?

For once… I will quote myself here and not some luminary [living or dead] expounding their own pontifications when mine will do!

It doesn’t matter if you are a musician or an artist or a writer as long as you are bringing to the world your own uniqueness… that’s the important thing.

It’s what you SAY [that belongs to you] that’s important.

The world doesn’t need more people doing the same things. The world needs more texture and more richness and more individuality. And I think the more of these sorts of things that we can bring to the world in our own way the better the world will be.

It takes courage tho… because you’re putting yourself on the line… you really are… in any creative pursuit you are putting your heart out there.

But in so putting your heart out there you’re bringing your own uniqueness… you’re bringing “who you are” to the world.

And I think that’s as good as it gets. That’s all any of us can do.

What do YOU think?

HAVE YOUR SAY HERE…

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Cartoon © Jean Burman 2011 [re Australia to export uranium to India]

Okay… that got your attention didn’t it? Sorry [grin]  But I have a story to tell you!

A few years ago I was sitting in a small stone cottage in the ring of Kerry in Ireland.  Rain tumbled down in the growing darkness outside… as we Aussies so far from home sat huddled around a small table by the fire waiting for our Irish Stew.

At the neighboring table were two rather stout Irish women discussing politics. Discovering we were Aussies… they turned the topic to a loud and spirited discussion about the absence of human rights in Australia’s dealings with her aboriginal people.

It made things awkward… yes.  But it also made me realise how helpless we often are when it comes to issues that are beyond our control.

In short.

You can’t lay blame at the grassroots for a problem that was created further up.

Lesson learned… and from then on for the rest of the trip… I shut up about the IRA [grin]

So why is Obama here in Australia… and what has it got to to do with me?

Well nothing actually.

He doesn’t even know I’m here… yet [grin]

He’s here to reaffirm the ANZUS treaty with a pledge to bolster the US presence in the Pacific and promote bilateral cooperation between our countries “in the event of an event” in the Asia Pacific region.  And he’s going to achieve all that in just under 28 hours! [grin]

But what’s this about an event?

What event?

Did somebody say there was going to be event? [grin]

Heck everyone knows that absolutely nothing happens in the Pacific. It’s one of the most laid back cruisey places on the planet. And since Pearl Harbor…. the Battle of the Coral Sea… and once the French stopped bombing the begeezers out of Muraroa atoll… it’s been all quiet on the western front [grin]

[From the archive] Cartoon © Jean Burman 2009

Nope… nothing much happens here.  Life is pretty good in the islands and even though there has been an economic slowdown here on the Pacific’s largest island due to the global financial crisis… we are weathering it relatively well.

So far.  So good. Fingers crossed.

But getting back to the big picture… I think we’re all a bit prone to pointing the finger over the fence at our neighbours and calling them out for perceived misdemeanors in the areas of human rights and global politics.

[Just like the ladies at the neighboring table in that little stone cottage in Ireland]

We point the finger at Canada for continuing to supply India with asbestos years after we’ve known of the catastrophic consequences to human health.  People will die from this.  Children are already coughing amidst clouds of asbestos dust blowing up around building sites in the slums of New Delhi. Yes… the supply of this hazardous product is unconscionable and should be exposed for what it is and stopped worldwide. Point blank.

But who are we to point the finger when just this week our Prime Minister has called for a lifting of the ban on the supply of Australian uranium to India… even though India is not a signatory to the nuclear non-proliferation treaty.

This sends a crazy message to the world that “nuclear-free” Australia is inconsistent and not only wildly out of step with the rest of the world [not just on climate change]… but is also willing to sell itself out at any price.

Breathing now. All is well in my world…. *deep sigh out on the count of three* 

Hey… I just had an idea!

Maybe Canada can supply the asbestos to house the reactors.

And Australia can send over the uranium to be used at their discretion.

Sounds like a plan to me…

and here we were [silly billies] worrying about climate change [grin]

Nope.

There are no asteroids in my little world.

Just some dust waiting to hit the fan on asbestos.

As individuals… we have so little influence.

But together we have a lot!

And we DO have to stand up and SAY something… even if sometimes we feel powerless to change things.

PS I just saw some little kids meeting the US President on a 7 news update.  One little boy received a hug instead of the usual handshake from the President and when asked later in an interview about how he managed it … he replied

“I asked”

I rest my case [grin]

You get what you ask for…

but only if you ask the right questions…

and only if you’re brave enough to speak up LOL

HAVE YOUR SAY HERE… what are your thoughts on this?

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Cartoon © Jean Burman 2011

We “create” the world we live in… we get to choose.

Nothing is real. Just perceived.

How wonderful that is when you realise.

A giant asteroid is hurtling toward earth.

The 2005 YU55 asteroid will pass within 200,000 kilometres of the earth on Tuesday.

That’s TODAY.

Am I worried?

No.

What will be will be.

Tomorrow… the greater world… the world OUT THERE… will go on as usual.

Politicians will be politicking. Scientists will be pontificating. World Leaders will be waffling.

I have no say in that world.

But in MY little world I get to steer the ship.

I am the captain of my dreams and the architect of my world.

I answer the call to arms when needed.  But I don’t have to take it in.

I can take it on board.  Or I can let it slide.

In MY little world… I get to be selective. I can choose my world experience.

And even though the situation may be set…

my reactions are fully customisable!

How 21st century is that? (((chuckles)))

I have the last say on what I eat for breakfast [and how well that makes me feel]… I can choose to be healthy and happy.  I can choose to live life honestly from the bottom of my heart.  And I can accept that not everyone else in the world will do the same. I can acknowledge the hopelessness and not take it onboard… but allow it to empower me instead.  I can do what I can to the best of my ability… but accept my capacity as well.

In my little world I can do anything.

I can choose to notice things.  I can stop. I can look. I can listen [and what's more]… I can hear.  I can learn.  I can remember. I can feel sadness… and embrace difficulty.  I can care. I can worry for the world.  But it won’t own me!

Today I can try to make a difference.

If only in my little world.

Today I will paint… write… [maybe shoot some film]… call a friend… breathe in the sweetness of the early morning air… take note of the sky and the clouds… and sit out on my deck and enjoy a coffee.  And as I savour the sweet warmth of its aroma I will think of the people who grew it… and picked it… and roasted it… and sent it out into the world to be enjoyed. The Maloberti family have been growing the best coffee in the world here for years. Every day they get to do what they do best… and produce brilliant coffee for the enjoyment of people like me.

They are making a difference in their little world.

And therefore making an impact on the world at large.

Just think what would happen if everyone everywhere lived ever present in their own little world?

Just think what would happen if everyone everywhere took care of their own backyard.

And lived there… fully functioning.  Fully caring.  Fully present. And participating.

Just think what OUR BIG WORLD would look like then!

Wouldn’t it make a WORLD OF DIFFERENCE?

Well… wouldn’t it?

There are no asteroids in my little world… just a pebble or two in my shoe.

And I can fix that.

So can you.

I am lucky.

So are you.

Let’s do it!

PS. IF ANYTHING HAPPENS I’LL SEE YOU ON THE OTHER SIDE
OTHERWISE: LEAVE A NOTE [grin]

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