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Air France

May 19, 2012 · 1 comment

The taxi to Orly

Well… I made it into Toulouse.

I must confess I was a little apprehensive when the travel agent suggested I take the early morning flight into Toulouse rather than hold out for the train. I was secretly hoping for the train but it would have meant cutting my time in Paris short and leaving a day early.

So… I opted to fly the short distance instead.

Why the apprehension you many well ask?  Especially after having sat contentedly on the 24 hour flight to Paris. No… it wasn’t fear of flying.  On the contrary.  Of course.

Wings over Toulouse

I know this might seem a bit silly of me really… but it was the memory of a flight taken years ago between Geneva and Nice that had been holding me back.  The spontaneous decision to fly the short leg instead of taking the 10 hour journey by train up over the Alps… had been an easy one.

The fact that Swissair had a 3 hour wait on that connection and Air France had none seemed curious to me at the time LOL  However… as time was at a premium… Air France it was.

My best memory of the flight was taking off perpendicular to the earth in a direct line toward the Alps… plastic champagne flute filled to the brim and swivelling wildly in the swinging cup holder in the armrest of my seat… [no doubt installed there expressly for this purpose].

I had been anticipating the usual safety spiel before takeoff when… with the cockpit door wide open and final clearance for take off received… the aircraft rolled into full throttle still with the service trolleys in the aisle.  The champagne must go on!

It was a wild ride. A crazy manoeuvring of steep left and right hand banks until we reached cruising altitude… and then after only a few moments of level flight… the crazy descent into Nice.

I must say it was kind of fun.  Though I was awfully grateful to be back on the ground.  But I was a bit younger back then too of course… and way so much more worried about stuff like that [grin]

This time I just sat back and enjoyed the ride.  No champagne.  But a great cup of coffee and delicious croissant [made with real butter] served in the nick of time minutes before the top of descent!

The French fly like they drive.  With verve and huge self assurance.  You can feel it in the flying style [I know it might sound odd... but yes... you can get a sense of the pilot's personality by the way he or she flies the aircraft]  Interesting isn’t it?

Anyway… I arrived in Toulouse… with an hour to spare [in case you were wondering] LOL

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I must be looking like a local already. I had my first request for directions this morning whilst walking briskly along the Champs Elysses. Oddly… she was French… very well dressed… and secretly I was chuffed that she thought I was “one of them” [grin]

But she did look kind of surprised when I confessed in my best aussie/french accent that my schoolgirl French was never going to get her where she wanted to go.

Heck. Besides the fact that I myself had been “as lost as a girl can get” just yesterday wandering around the base of the arc de triumph at least a dozen times before finally finding my way out… this woman was in serious trouble attempting to rely on me [grin]

Funny how I thought I knew Paris well. Well “enough” anyway. But apparently not. Paris for anyone who wants to know is set out in one great big concentric circle… and all roads [unfortunately] lead to… um… Rome [go figure] LOL

It took me 20 minutes this morning to do the Champs. I had asked about a cab at the hotel [remembering well how very lost I had been yesterday in the rain] but no “there are noooo taxeeess today madaaam all beesy” came the reply to my perfectly plausible request. So undeterred… I pulled out my trusty map [the one that got me into so much trouble yesterday] and headed out on foot.

It wasn’t far. Not really… although my feet now tell a different story. But it was kind of fun getting honked at on every street crossing even when the lights were green. What are the French if not persistent honkers of horns? “Let’s get those pesky pedestrians out of the way… if we can’t hit em… at least we can scare the begeezers out of them”

What that says about human nature I’m not quite sure… but meet a person face to face in any other circumstance… and you can pretty much guarantee they will be more than affable people.

Take the taxi driver yesterday who drove me in from the Airport. He was such a good sport. He had a funny little tick that had me more than a bit worried that he might jump right out of the window at any moment…. but a more courageous driver I never saw in his quest to get me to my destination quickly [although maybe not altogether safely] and before I could blurt out the address we were speeding out of Charles de Gaulle and looping around the Peripherique on our way into the city [remember how I told you Paris was one great big concentric circle? Well it is]

A couple of times I closed my eyes. I’m a self-confessed backseat driver at the best of times and acknowledge this fact openly. That’s why I was peering out the window through three spread fingers humming the French national anthem as he began to dart in and out between the trucks!

Unfortunately I looked up just in time to see that we were bearing down fast on the back of a truck at which point I involuntarily shrieked STOOOPP which definitely gave the game away that I was not only a tourist but alas also an aussie… a double indictment on my part no doubt.

He laughed it off and hurriedly explained away in rapid French that everything was A… O… KAY… okey dokey then. Gosh… and here I was thinking he wasn’t going to stop. Silly me. We both laughed as I offered up a somewhat fractured “pardon moi” and climbed with great relief back into my box on the back seat… [to be continued]

Not breakfast at Tiffany’s [breakfast at Angelina's which is also good - grin]

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Paint Write Love

May 14, 2012 · 8 comments

Here I sit on the precipice of a new chapter.

I know that sounds dramatic… but it is!

I can almost not believe that tonight I shall be winging my way to Dubai.

And then tomorrow as the sun comes up over the desert sands I will fly on to Paris.

Life couldn’t be more exciting.

But for anyone who has followed my blog for the past few years will know… it hasn’t always been that way.

I have come so far since this journey started.

I have faced hardship… and pain.

And now… at last… I have reached the final step to freedom.

I’m a little frightened.  Which is natural I guess.

Taking that leap of faith into the unknown abyss was never going to be easy.

But it is essential.

And as they say:

“Great oceans were never discovered without first losing sight of the shore”

The decision to go to France was more an impulse than a decision. Something I could not NOT do. It was a foregone conclusion. .Not a decision at all.

Call it fate.

Or destiny.

It was already written.

Have you ever noticed how destiny simply presents itself… right there in front of you.

You look at it and instinctively know what’s going to happen.

Well… now when the Universe speaks… I listen [and it's not like I have a choice] [grin]

Of course… I could choose not to go.  I do have free will.

But why?  I’ve already seen myself there!

What’s been really funny though… is how the Universe has also been sending me trials to test my will. To test my stick-ability. My conviction to going. My readiness to meet the challenge.

From the very first day I booked my flights… obstacles have bobbed up all over the place.

Lights went out in my house.

Things broke.

My old laptop died.

My new car went back to the dealership with an oil leak [twice]

It’s like the spirit went out of the place.

But I got to do new wonderful things… like sit in a hammock sideways and look at the moon.

This place… this paradise I call home… has been really turning it on for me over the last couple of weeks.  Perfect cool clear crisp blue sky days. Days when the balmy breeze threatens to take over everything.

My life is in that breeze.  My heart is in this place.

But I was beginning to not see it.

I need change.  In order to see it all again.

Do you know what I mean?  Have you ever felt like that?

I bought a book of paintings by artist Thomas McKnight in Hawaii quite a few years ago.

I remember how his process resonated with me then.

He divided his time between New England and Florida… painting Florida while longing for the deep cosiness of New England… and painting New England while longing for the cool balm of Florida.

I get that.  I really do.

I am taking my laptop… and an arsenal of electronic equipment to hopefully stay in touch with you by way of blog articles… music… and videos.

I will also be setting up a brand new Facebook page

PAINT WRITE LOVE

[a nod to Elizabeth Gilbert's Eat Pray Love with huge apologies] so you can track me down and follow my progress.

And I will be counting on your moral support along the way!

I don’t speak French… so wish me luck… [I may well starve to death] LOL

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Vulnerability Hurts

April 16, 2012 · 13 comments

There’s a reason why people don’t open up their hearts.

It might well be the fear of being vulnerable… as Brene Brown discusses in her latest TED talk.  But it may also have something to do with our innate need to protect ourselves. I was saddened this morning to hear that Brene was recently hurt by her openness in this TED talk. 

So what’s been your experience of being open?

What has happened to you as a result of allowing yourself to be completely… perhaps blindly… open and vulnerable?

If you’re like most of us… [and you're honest] … you will probably say.

Awful

Because people are cruel.

And the world isn’t kind.

So how then… do we admit what we know may sink us… the revelation that we are indeed human… with all those attendant failures foibles and frailties… and confess to the world that we are faulty [like everyone else]

It’s not that easy… is it?

Because the minute we do… there will be someone right there to lop us off at the knees.

However on the bright side… I do agree with Brene… that there will always be a percentage of people who will honour our courage… our strength… and our ability to face off with a brutal judgmental world.

And we should feel incredibly blessed when this happens!

The antidote to vulnerability of course… is kindness… and empathy.

An acknowledgement that yep… life isn’t easy [for any of us]

And that we are all [afterall] in this darned thing together.

And seeing as none of us are getting out of here alive… we might as well at least be nice [grin]

I’m not entirely sure who the winners or losers are in the vulnerability stakes.

But I do know we have to be true to ourselves.

To be as real as we possibly can.

To love and respect ourselves enough to be who we are.

And to believe in ourselves regardless of the cost.

It’s a tough call.

And occasionally we’ll be caught off guard.

And yes… we WILL get hurt.

But we might get lucky too… that there’ll be somebody there to break our fall.

To acknowledge that we are just the same.

That we all have the same need for truth and openness.

That we all need to find the courage to risk the hurt that being vulnerable brings… in order to grow into fully functioning lovable human beings.

It’s no small thing I’m asking for.

But you know that already… don’t you? [grin]

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