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There has been a lot of talk lately on blogs about the virtues of the Minimalist lifestyle.

For the uninitiated… minimalism is where the “stuff” of life is pared down to the bare essentials.  The idea here is that people should divest themselves of as many material goods, people and things as is practically possible.

Lose the house, the wife, the beamer, and the Blahniks… but keep the surfboard.  You know… that sort of thing. Now put the remaining contents of your life (no more than 20 things) into a suitcase and get on with your life.  Do what you want to do. Be who you want to be. Get a life… but make it a basic one… *sigh* [Grin]

So who does this apply to? And how will the downsize impact upon everyone else in your life?

Don’t get me wrong. I completely understand the thrust of the argument. And I am not completely averse.

In this crazy consumer driven society we are presently attempting to subsist in… there is definitely a call for moderation in the accumulation of “stuff”. Especially for anyone who has ever owned three Porches a couple of Penthouses a home in the country and two standard Poodles all at the same time… not necessarily in that order… and not necessarily on the same continent! [chuckles]

But what about the rest of us?

Is minimalism really something we should be aspiring to?

I may be playing the devils advocate here. But someone has to ask the question and I reckon it may as well be me! [insert cheeky grin here] And in asking the question…  I do acknowledge that many people have had minimalism foisted upon them because of the global financial crisis or for other reasons beyond their control.  We are not talking here about them.

But in the cold hard light of day… if we were to have a real choice… would we actually choose to live a spartan existence?  Is scrimping and saving… nipping and tucking on a lifestyle that might already be modest by the average standard really a good thing to do? Or should we be trying for… and aspiring to bigger and better things?

The Dictionary description of the opposing types gives us a clue as to what we are really dealing with here.

A Minimalist [noun] is one who advocates a moderate conservative approach action or policy.

A Maximalist [noun]  is a person who favors direct or revolutionary action to achieve a goal.

So if a Maximalist is someone who favours direct or revolutionary action to achieve a goal… I reckon I would rather be a Maximalist!  [Who are we to deny ourselves the comfort of abundance?] *wink*


“Time Was” Copyright 2010 Jean Burman

My Grandmother’s watch…

By abundance I don’t mean… luxury.  And I’m not advocating wasteful excess either.  What I am talking about is ownership of the small things that make our life not only comfortable familiar and safe… but also joyful fun and inspiring.  Because despite what we all might say or think… “things” do bring us joy.  They connect us to the people we know and have known and the places we have been and loved.

We come into the world with nothing and we all just as surely go out the same way. Why not then… while we are here… and to the best of our capacity to provide for it… allow ourselves the luxury of owning a few key material things that can make our life great?

The other day I dug out three small much loved recipe books I bought for myself over half a lifetime ago. All those years ago they promised Minimum Effort Maximum Effect… and on that they have delivered! As a metaphor for life I like that! Grin. The pages are dog-eared and splattered with the ingredients of a thousand wonderful dinners prepared with love over all those years.  I love those little books.  They have brought me joy and will continue to do so for many years to come!

Life is here for us to live and enjoy.  Each and every day.  And as long as we are not hurting anyone… harming anything… being careless with the gifts of love and material goods that are bestowed upon us… let’s just enjoy it all.  We have so little time.  It’s now or never.  So go on… live a little…

Live Life to the Max!

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I love my new place. The light here is lovely. Between this place and I… we shall be doing some wonderful collaborations. I just know it.

How strange it is. I first saw this place over a year ago. Right there and then I knew we had a destiny to fulfil with each other.

It was early days though back then. I wasn’t ready… it wasn’t time… and it didn’t happen. Back then I didn’t know where I wanted to be. More to the point… I didn’t care. So displaced was I.

Then… right after Christmas while staying with my daughter… I walked past the place again on my early morning walk. This time there was a sign in the front garden facing the boardwalk that surrounds the lake. I stood for a long time looking… and then turned and walked away.

I put it out of my mind and flew home.

Then on my flying visit last month… [remember the one week that turned into four...] the place finally grabbed my undivided attention. Incredibly the sign was still there… and this time I just knew. Don’t ask me how… or why. But something told me this was where I had to be [at least] for the next short while.

Like I said before… nothing is ever for nothing. Nothing is ever forever.

chairs waitingChairs lining up to get out of storage… [chuckles]

The place is still empty awaiting the removalist van on Thursday… but already it feels like home. Already there has been laughter… and cooking.

I can’t help but feel my Dad would have been just a little proud… as trusty toolbox in hand… I managed to conquer most tasks except for Emily’s bed frame which shall for the time being remain a mysterious challenge in the basement until I can figure out how to reassemble it!

The mattress we managed to (girl)handle up two flights of stairs… the infernal thing lurching and wobbling around precariously as one step at a time… amid gales of laughter… we eventually hauled it to the top. I now have biceps!

storagePaintings… hot on the heels of the chairs… they smell freedom… [grin]

It’s raining today and I’m glad. Huge banks of puffy grey clouds are blowing past the kitchen window and the wind is whipping up the water across the lake. It’s cooler here. And it’s cosy inside.

Earlier I was out in the small terrace garden pulling some weeds. It felt good to be out in the rain.

The sky looks amazing… as does the light in this room. Although way more urban… this place reminds me of the home I left behind well over a year ago… and the lovely light that was there.

I didn’t think I’d ever find that light again. But it’s here.

Somehow I knew it would be… and for now that is enough.

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If  we should ever need to be reminded of how quickly time passes… look no further than a garden.  What a difference a day makes there!   One day a bud… the next… a flower.

 

 

It’s rapid.  And unforgiving.  Ants already encircle the delicate blooms.

So… without thought for the future or what might be… I resolve to simply enjoy the blossoms now.  Today.  As though tomorrow does not exist.  I breathe the scent that evokes the memories of childhood… passionfruit and jasmine… and of places real and imagined.   I close my eyes.  I am a child again.  Long ago and very far away… the fragrance of another time.   Scattered frangipani blossoms upon the grass… and deep reflections in the dark still water.  Tranquility.  I open my eyes to admire the flush of youth and innocent optimism in the plump freshness of the blooms.  So much hope and promise there!

 

And tomorrow… as the weight of morning dewdrop and gravity… and the passing of time weighs heavily on them… I will remember today.  Then happily move on.   And over the days to come… I will stop to appreciate the rich deep fragrance that only develops with age.   And the potential for joy that each moment of life can hold.

If only we might grasp it.

Youth is wasted on the young…(smiles)

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